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Taking a look at the world of film through gay eyes - news, reviews, trailers, gay film, queer cinema and more

Taking a look at the world of film through gay eyes - news, reviews, trailers, gay film, queer cinema & more

Lilting (DVD Review)

October 6, 2014 By Tim Isaac Leave a Comment

Starring: Ben Whishaw, Cheng Pei Pei, Andrew Leung, Peter Bowles, Naomi Christie
Director: Hong Khaou
Running Time: 91 mins
Certificate: 15
Release Date: September 29th 2014 (UK)

An aging Cambodian-Chinese woman (Cheng Pei Pei) talks to her son, Kai (Andrew Leung) in a nursing home. However he’s not really there. It’s her remembrance of the last time she saw him a few weeks before, the day before he died. Now she is left alone, living in Britain but unable to speak English.

Her son’s partner, Richard (Ben Whishaw), wants to help her, even though he’s going through his own grief, something that’s complicated not just by the language barrier but also because Junn didn’t know her child was gay (or perhaps she did know but was in denial). Richard’s remembrance of his lover revolves around his gentle coaxing of him to come out, so that perhaps Junn can come and live with them, something he hopes will assuage the guilt he knows Kai feels. Now he still wants to help Junn, but she’s not sure she wants his help, partly because she always disliked him and doesn’t trust him. [Read more…]

Lilting (BFI Flare Review)

April 4, 2014 By Scott Elliott Leave a Comment

Starring: Ben Whishaw, Pei Pei Cheng, Morven Christie, Peter Bowles
Director: Hong Khaou
Running Time: 91 mins
Certificate: NR
Release Date: August 8th 2014 (UK Cinemas)

We managed to catch the excellent Lilting for the BFI: Flare: London Lesbian & Gay Film Festival gala, courtesy of American Airlines. And we’re glad we did!

Lilting, written and directed by Cambodian-born (but British resident) Hong Khaou tells the story two people finding each other in the aftermath of a devastating bereavement: A non-English-speaking mother (Cheng) whose only lifeline into an alien and intimidating culture is suddenly severed; and her son Kai’s secret boyfriend Richard (Whishaw), whose world crumbles when the love of his life is so cruelly taken away. Having previously battled him for her son’s love and attention, mother and boyfriend must now come to terms with the reality of life without Kai, and what that means for both of them. [Read more…]

Ben Whishaw Starrer Lilting To Open BFI London Lesbian & Gay Film Festival

February 12, 2014 By Tim Isaac Leave a Comment

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It’s just over a month until the 28th London Lesbian & Gay Film Festival opens on March 20th, and now the BFI has announced the movie that will get a gala screening on that first night – the Sundance Award Winner, Lilting.

Hong Khaou’s poetic drama of love and loss will get it’s European premiere at the event. UK based Khaou made his name with the successful gay-themed shorts Spring and Summer, both of which featured in the popular Boys On Film DVD series. Lilting is his first feature film and stars Ben Whishaw, Cheng Pei Pei (Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon), Andrew Leung, and Peter Bowles. It picked up a cinematography prize at Sundance.

Khaou commented, “I’m so thrilled Lilting will be opening the LLGFF. It’s a wonderful film festival to kick off our home and European premiere. It feels like a perfect fit to have it in London and at the BFI. I’m thankful Clare and her team have given us such a prestigious slot, it shows a lot of love and faith in Lilting.”

Here’s the synopsis for the movie: ‘Staggering from loss after the recent death of his lover Kai, Richard (Ben Whishaw) reaches out to Kai’s mother Junn  (Crouching Tiger’s Cheng Pei Pei), a Chinese-Cambodian woman who has never assimilated or learned English in her 20-something years in London. Kai was Junn’s lifeline to the world; she relied on him for everything, but despite this enforced intimacy, he never came out to her and Junn remains fiercely critical of Richard through a fugue of maternal jealousy and denial.

‘British director Hong Khaou’s film uses a cinematic idiom all of its own, weaving narrative strands from past and present, real and imagined, between mother and son and also between Richard and Kai (a boyishly beautiful Andrew Leung). Lingering, tender scenes of the lovers are dreamily captured by Weekend cinematographer Ula Pontikos (who deservedly nabbed a Sundance award). While serious and moving as a study of loss, Lilting also gracefully incorporates humour and warmth through a subplot in which Junn is wordlessly courted by an elderly Englishman (Peter Bowles), aided by a translator supplied by Richard.

‘A lyrical exploration of the pleasures and pains of communication, produced under the auspices of Film London’s hugely successful Microwave scheme, this is a precious British film to celebrate. It’s also a sophisticated portrait of a gay male relationship that goes beyond the first flushes of love to the heights and bittersweet depths of sharing a life, albeit briefly, with someone you love.’

The full programme of the LLGFF (20th-30th March, 2014) will bee announced on Wednesday 19th February at BFI. Programmers promise a bumper festival with 50 features, as a new VOD strand through the BFI Player, which will offer a collection of contemporary and archive LGBT film available to stream. We’re also promise a previously unseen Derek Jarman work.

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ACTORS: Ben Whishaw  DIRECTORS: Hong Khaou  FILMS: Lilting  

Ben Whishaw Takes An Intriguing Gay Role In Lilting

December 6, 2012 By Tim Isaac Leave a Comment


While there’s been a bit of speculation as to Ben Whishaw’s sexuality, he hasn’t had much to say about it. However that hasn’t stopped him playing the full range of possible proclivities, even recently turning Shakespeare’s Richard II rather gay in The Hollow Crown. He’s also, of course, been having huge success recently as the new Q in Skyfall.

Now he’s taken a gay role in the microbudget movie Lilting, from writer/director Hong Khaou (helmer of the excellent British gay shorts Summer and Spring), according to THR. The plot is slightly similar to Xavier Dolan’s upcoming Tom a la ferme, although whereas that film’s French Canadian, this one focussing on a Chinese mother (Cheng Pei Pei) who is grieving for her son (Andre Leung) after his untimely death. While they both lived in the UK, the Chinese born mother used her son as her conduit to living in Britain and is lost without him.

Feeling stranded in her adopted country, the only person she has left is her son’s friend (Ben Whishaw). However while she believes the young Brit was her son’s roommate, he was actually his lover. They come together, trying to overcome their differences – both culturally and through a difficult language barrier.

Peter Bowles and Morven Christie are also set to star in the film. Backing comes from FilmLondon’s ultra-low budget filmmaking fund, Microwave, which previously helped get iLL Manors made.

Khaou comments, “This film is very close to my heart. The support I’ve had through the mentors has been intelligent, insightful and imaginative. There was a genuine, considered care towards helping me anchor my voice and ideas.”

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ACTORS: Ben Whishaw  DIRECTORS: Hong Khaou  FILMS: Lilting  

Boys On Film: Chatting to Spring director Hong Khaou about his great short film

May 28, 2012 By Tim Isaac Leave a Comment

If you’ve been following our reviews of the Boys On Film series of short film compilations over the past couple of weeks, you’ll know there’s a lot of great LGBT mini-movies out there. The latest release, Boys On Film: Cruel Britannia, includes a short called Spring, by director Hong Khaou, about a young man having his first experience of kinky power-play sex.

To mark the release of the short on the Cruel Britannia DVD, we were lucky enough to chat to Hong, and got an insight into creating a gay-themed short film in the UK, and the challenges and opportunities that present.

Where did the idea for the film come from?
The idea came from a story I read about someone’s bad sexual experience. I thought it was a great premise for a short film, and instead of making it about a sexual experience gone wrong I wanted to have as a beginning of a journey and show some of the excitements and anxieties of that.

Did you have to do much research into the S&M world?
I did a fair bit of research. The film isn’t really about the world of SM, this was more a metaphor for experiencing something very different for the first time. Such as kissing a guy for the first time, or having sex with a man for the first time. It isn’t necessary a film about the SM scene. That was the canvas to convey how exciting and frightening it is when I first kissed or had sex with a man for example. How all these feelings were colliding, and I had to find a way to compartmentalise it all and running, exhausting my body was a way of doing that.

Was it difficult to find the actors?
It was more difficult to find the young actor, because he really had to expose himself. It’s not the easiest of scenario to be in either, it takes a certain strength to do that.  I meet the potential actors personally to explain the project and gain their trust. Because of the subject matter, I felt it needed a personal approach to show that I wasn’t being gratuitous or exploitative. The older character wasn’t so hard because a lot of the actors really relish in playing a complex character.

The short uses the room made famous by The King’s Speech (and other films). What is it about that location that’s so attractive to filmmakers?
You know I had no idea that room was famous. When we filmed there, The King’s Speech hadn’t come out, and we certainly weren’t trying to jump on their bandwagon. It just looks like the perfect location. The room had such a presence, and we consciously made that be part of the texture of the film, almost like it was a character. The King’s Speech reference has become a bit of a curse, If I knew I certainly wouldn’t have used it.

Another of your films, Summer, was on the first Boys On Film collection. Do you feel you’ve changed as a filmmaker since you made Summer?
There was a 5 years gap between Summer and Spring, I feel I have improved as a filmmaker – I’m more confident as a Director.

Was it easier to get this short made than your earlier one?
Spring, was extremely difficult to get made, it was turned down many times by various funding organisations. It must have been 3 years of endless submissions before we got this funding from Film London.

How do you go about raising funding to make a short film?
The only way I know is to enter for regional funding grants. It would have been too expensive, difficult and labour intensive to raise it via friends and family.

Spring was made with the help of the UK Film Council. Do you think it will be more difficult for people making short films and/or gay themed films now that organisation has been shut down, or do you feel the BFI will continue or improve things?
I think the BFI will continue to fund queer themes films. The organisation has traditionally been supportive of LGBT work.  If anything I think the BFI will be more supportive than the UK Film Council, time will tell.

Do you think the government’s attitude, which seems to prize explicitly commercial filmmaking, is more of a threat?
I think that’s a very dangerous root to go down. In our pursuit to be commercial we are neglecting a core group of filmmakers whose talent and voice might not be perceived as commercial, but that doesn’t mean they are any less important or there’s no audience for it.  Commercial ideas by their very nature have a greater chance of finding funding because by their nature it’s ‘commercial’. It’s those with the unusual ideas or is brave to tackle themes that the private sector deems ‘un-commercial’ that will need the help, support and opportunities. Our obsession to make all things big and commercial will affect a generation of extremely talented filmmakers.

How long did you have to actually shoot Spring?
We shot it in 3 days, and five heart attacks.

How long would you say it was from the first idea to the first time an audience saw the film?
Oh god that must have been at least 4 years, from the initial writing to completion.

What’s the significance of the title?
The title refers to the blossoming of the young man’s life, his sexual journey / discovery / awakening.

Once it was made, how did you ensure your film got out there to as many people as possible, as the world of shorts isn’t always a visible as for feature-length movies? What are the main avenues for shorts to get screened?
Film festivals are the best way to profile a short film. We were very lucky, it got into Sundance and then Berlinale. And because they were big profile festivals, from there other film festivals requested the film. You should submit your short film to the British Council also, they have good advice on how to get your short films out there. They will have a list of festivals to submit your film to. If your film has a LGBT theme, Peccadillo Pictures is also a great place to send it to as they acquire short films. They’re pretty much the daddy of films with an LGBT theme.

Do LGBT film festivals help a filmmaker like yourself?
LGBT film festivals have a very important role to play. And it’s important to attend those festivals too, as that’s where you will make the contacts and connect with other filmmakers and festival programmers. Also because Spring and Summer was shown at these LGBT film festivals, it got picked up for acquisition in France and Germany etc.

Do you wish there were more things like Boys On Film, which work to showcase short films?
It’s definitely good to have other avenues to show your short film. It’s a shame there isn’t more.  Short film is a fantastic format, a great event for a large group of friends to go to – it’s very social. Most filmmakers pretty much start out with a short film.

Thank you Hong.

CHECK OUT THESE RELATED ARCHIVES:
DIRECTORS: Hong Khaou  FILMS: Boys On Film 8: Cruel Britannia  

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